父母离婚经历影响依恋安全感的保护因素
The Protective Factors of Attachment Security Affected by Parental Divorce Experiences
DOI: 10.12677/ap.2025.153146, PDF,   
作者: 罗芳艳:西南大学心理学部,重庆
关键词: 父母离婚依恋保护因素Parental Divorce Attachment Protective Factors
摘要: 依恋对个体的心理社会发展十分重要。基于过往研究,父母离婚对依恋安全感具有一定的负面影响,有父母离婚经历的个体更容易形成消极的自我、他人和关系认知,更容易表现出依恋不安全的特点。但也存在一些家庭保护因素和个人保护因素能够减弱这种负面影响,离婚后积极的家庭环境、父母冲突减少、早期安全依恋和积极的亲子关系以及个体对父母离婚的合理认知和心理弹性对依恋安全感都具有一定的保护作用。
Abstract: Attachment is of great significance to an individual’s psychological and social development. Based on previous studies, parental divorce has a certain negative impact on attachment security. Individuals with parental divorce experiences are more likely to form negative self-perceptions, perceptions of others, and perceptions of relationships, and are more likely to exhibit insecure attachment characteristics. However, there are also some family protective factors and personal protective factors that can weaken this negative impact. Positive family environment after divorce, reduced parental conflict, early secure attachment, positive parent-child relationship, and individuals’ reasonable cognition and psychological resilience of parental divorce have certain protective effects on attachment security.
文章引用:罗芳艳 (2025). 父母离婚经历影响依恋安全感的保护因素. 心理学进展, 15(3), 209-218. https://doi.org/10.12677/ap.2025.153146

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