亲密关系付出行为中的反应性
Responsiveness in Giving Behavior in Romantic Relationship
DOI: 10.12677/ap.2026.163136, PDF,   
作者: 姜舒阳：西南大学心理学部，重庆
关键词: 付出；关系质量；反应性；Giving； Relationship Quality； Responsiveness
摘要: 近年来，国内学者结合中国集体主义的社会文化背景，拓展了亲密关系中利他行为——牺牲的范畴，进而提出了付出感这一概念，并初步研究了付出感与关系满意度之间的关系。国外学者对反应性在牺牲情境下的作用进行了初步探讨。本文回顾了国内外的相关研究结果，提出未来研究应该关注反应性在付出情境中的具体运作机制，同时关注个体的认知偏差尤其是相似性偏差如何影响PPR，进而影响付出评估，为推进亲密关系领域的付出感相关理论以及提高关系质量的干预工作提供支持。
Abstract: In recent years, Chinese scholars, drawing on the sociocultural context of collectivism in China, have expanded the scope of altruistic behavior in intimate relationships—particularly sacrifice—and proposed the concept of sense of contribution. Preliminary studies have examined the association between sense of contribution and relationship satisfaction. Meanwhile, international scholars have begun to explore the role of responsiveness in sacrificial contexts. Building on a review of relevant domestic and international research, the present article proposes that future studies should focus on the specific mechanisms through which responsiveness operates in contribution-related contexts, as well as on how individuals’ cognitive biases—especially similarity bias—shape perceived partner responsiveness (PPR) and, in turn, influence evaluations of contribution. Such efforts would help advance theories related to the sense of contribution in the field of intimate relationships and inform interventions aimed at improving relationship quality.
文章引用：姜舒阳 (2026). 亲密关系付出行为中的反应性. 心理学进展, 16(3), 221-228. https://doi.org/10.12677/ap.2026.163136

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