当代大学生婚恋观问题研究——基于《家庭、私有制和国家的起源》

Research on the Marriage and Love Views of Contemporary College Students—Based on The Origin of the Family, Private Property and the State

摘要: 在社会转型与网络文化深度渗透的现实背景下，当代大学生婚恋观出现物质化功利化、责任意识淡薄、两性关系失衡、婚恋自由认知偏差等突出问题，对青年成长、校园稳定与家庭社会和谐形成挑战。恩格斯《家庭、私有制和国家的起源》以历史唯物主义视角揭示婚姻家庭本质，蕴含以互爱为婚姻前提、以责任忠诚为核心的真正一夫一妻制、以人格独立为基础的两性平等、以感情为准则的理性婚姻自由等经典婚恋思想，为纠偏大学生婚恋认知、构建科学婚恋教育体系提供核心理论依据。本文立足该著作核心理论，系统梳理当代大学生婚恋观的现实困境，从坚守互爱核心、强化责任伦理、树立平等意识、坚持理性自由、构建家校社协同育人机制五个维度提出针对性教育路径，旨在为高校开展婚恋观教育、引导大学生树立健康理性婚恋观念提供理论参考与实践方案。

Abstract: In the context of social transformation and the pervasive infiltration of online culture, contemporary college students have shown prominent deviations in their marriage and love views, including prevalent materialism and utilitarianism, a weak sense of responsibility, imbalanced gender relations, and distorted cognition of romantic freedom. These problematic tendencies pose potential risks to individual youth development, campus stability as well as family and social harmony. Engels’ work The Origin of the Family, Private Property and the State reveals the essential connotation of marriage and family from the perspective of historical materialism and contains profound classical thoughts on love and marriage. It advocates that mutual affection serves as the premise of marriage, genuine monogamy takes responsibility and loyalty as the core, gender equality is based on individual independence, and rational marital freedom is guided by emotional ethics. These theoretical viewpoints lay a solid core theoretical foundation for rectifying college students’ misconceptions of marriage and love and constructing a scientific cognitive system of marriage and love. Based on the core theories of this classic work, this paper systematically sorts out and analyzes the practical dilemmas and prominent problems existing in contemporary college students’ marriage and love views. From five dimensions of adhering to the essence of mutual love, strengthening ethical responsibility, cultivating equal gender awareness, adhering to rational romantic freedom, and constructing a collaborative education mechanism of families, schools and communities, this paper puts forward targeted optimization strategies, aiming to provide effective theoretical references and practical guidelines for colleges and universities to carry out marriage and love cognition guidance and help contemporary college students establish healthy, rational and correct marriage and love views.