老龄化背景下家庭代际价值冲突与重构研究

Research on Family Intergenerational Value Conflict and Reconstruction in the Context of Aging

摘要: 在人口老龄化持续加深的背景下，婚姻议题成为家庭代际互动的敏感焦点，“催婚”折射出微观家庭内部的价值张力。本研究以社会认同理论与价值重构理论为框架，采用网络文本分析法，对小红书平台催婚相关叙事进行系统编码与分析。研究发现：(1) 催婚冲突的本质是代际间在婚姻价值定义、价值主体归属与价值关系性质三个维度上的系统性对张；(2) 父母催婚行为受社会比较与面子焦虑、养老焦虑的代际转嫁及“任务”逻辑与社会规训三重驱动；(3) 面对持续的价值压力，青年群体发展出边界维护、关系修复和认同重建型三类话语策略；(4) 价值重构并非冲突的必然结果，而呈现为破坏性僵局、妥协性探索与反思性重构三种差异化路径。研究还探讨了家庭旅游等代际共同体验作为冲突缓冲机制的可能性，为理解老龄化社会中家庭代际关系的调适提供理论参照与实践启示。

Abstract: Against the backdrop of intensifying population aging, marriage has become a sensitive focus of intergenerational family interactions, with “marriage pressure” reflecting value tensions within families. Drawing on social identity theory and value reconstruction theory, this study employs network text analysis to examine marriage-pressure narratives on Xiaohongshu. Findings reveal that: (1) Marriage-pressure conflicts stem from systematic intergenerational divergence in the definition of marital values, ownership of value agency, and the nature of value relations; (2) Parental pressure is driven by social comparison and concerns over social image, transferred anxiety regarding eldercare, and the logic of “family tasks” and social norms; (3) Young adults develop three discursive strategies: boundary maintenance, relationship repair, and identity reconstruction; and (4) Value reconstruction follows three paths: destructive deadlock, compromising exploration, and reflective transformation. This study further discusses intergenerational shared experiences, such as family tourism, as potential mechanisms for conflict mediation, offering theoretical and practical insights into family adaptation in aging societies.