热烈、贞专、理智：《诗经》中女性的婚恋观

Passionate, Faithful, Rational: Female’s Views on Love and Marriage in The Book of Odes

摘要: 《诗经》是我国第一部诗歌总集，其中爱情诗不仅较全面地记录了先秦时期的婚恋和家庭生活情况，也生动鲜明地反映出了当时女性的爱情观。《诗经》中女性的婚恋观虽然受当时社会礼俗的影响有着不可避免的时代的局限性，但在远古遗风下仍然有别于后世受封建礼教束缚的女子，有着更为接近现代女性对爱情自由和婚姻双方平等的婚恋观，具体表现为追求爱情时的热烈、对配偶贞专的要求以及对婚变的理智自省，对后世仍然具有着重要的启迪意义和当代价值。

Abstract: The Book of Songs is the first collection of Chinese poetry in which love poems not only record the state of love and marriage and domestic life in the pre-Qin period, but also vividly reflect the female view of love at that time. Although the women’s marriage view in the Book of Odes is influenced by the social cus-toms at that time and has the inevitable limitations of the Times, but the women in this period un-der the ancient tradition are still different from the later women bound by feudal ethics, with a closer modern women’s marriage view on love freedom and equality between the two sides. In the Book of Odes, the women’s views on marriage and love are expressed as the passionate pursuit of love, the demand for the fidelity of the spouse and the rational choice in the face of marriage change, which are still of vital edifying and contemporary value to posterity.