青年婚恋行为的个体化探索与社会支持

Individualized Exploration and Social Support of Young People’s Love and Marriage Behavior

摘要: 家庭是社会中最稳定的组织，子女是家庭的产物，近年来我国不断调整计划生育政策鼓励生育却收效甚微的原因，或许就与低成婚率高离婚率有关。我国早已进入人口老龄化社会，“未富先老”是当今社会一个显著的标志，尽管我国在努力将人口负担转变为人口红利，但离开青年新鲜血液的注入，终究不是长久之计。因此，本文从结婚率低，离婚人口较多的婚恋现状入手，在个体化理论的指导下找出适婚人数减少，适婚人员不婚以及已婚人员离婚的几个方向，并根据这三个方向提出针对性的改善政策，这对于社会的稳定发展具有重要意义。

Abstract: The family is the most stable organization in society, and children are the product of the family. In recent years, China has been constantly adjusting its family planning policy to encourage childbearing, but the reason why it has little effect may be related to the low marriage rate and high divorce rate. China has already entered an aging society and “getting old before getting rich” is a remarkable symbol of today’s society. Although China is trying to turn the population burden into a demographic dividend, it is not a long-term solution to leave the injection of fresh blood from young people. Therefore, starting from the current situation of marriage and love with low marriage rate and large divorced population, this paper finds out several directions of decreasing marriageable people, unmarried marriageable people and divorced married people under the guidance of individualization theory, and puts forward targeted improvement policies according to these three directions, which is of great significance to the stable development of society.