基于不礼貌理论的夫妻冲突话语研究——以《再见爱人》为例

Analysis of Conflict Talk between Couples from the Perspective of Impoliteness Theory—A Case Study on See You Again

摘要: 礼貌原则作为语用学的重要议题之一，提出较早，一直受到众多学者的关注。相对来说，不礼貌现象研究起步较晚，但近年来受到学者愈来愈多的关注。冲突话语是日常生活交往中普遍的语言现象，学者们基于不同视角研究夫妻冲突话语、亲子冲突话语等不同冲突话语。本文结合不礼貌与冲突话语，从不礼貌角度出发，以Bousfield 2008年提出的不礼貌理论为依据，研究了国内真人秀节目《再见爱人》中的夫妻冲突话语。研究发现，夫妻冲突话语中共使用了13类不礼貌策略和3种不礼貌回应模式，不同夫妻使用不礼貌策略的特点不同，这与夫妻相处模式和夫妻双方性格息息相关。本研究帮助人们更好的理解夫妻间的冲突话语，有助于人们在人际交往中塑造和谐的人际关系。

Abstract: As one of the indispensable topics in pragmatics, Politeness principle has always attracted researchers’ high attention. Relatively, impoliteness study is proposed later, but it attracts more and more scholars’ stress in recent years. Conflict talk is prevailing and ubiquitous phenomenon in our daily life. From different perspectives, scholars conduct studies on different conflict talks, such as conflict talks between couples and parent-child conflict talks. From the perspective of impoliteness, this paper probes into conflict talks between couples in the reality television show See You Again. The study finds that 13 impoliteness strategies and 3 response patterns have applied to linguistic data in this thesis. The use of impoliteness strategies by different couples presents different characteristics, which is closely related to the marital relationship pattern and the personality of couples. This paper conduces to a better understanding of conflict talks between couples and helps people to shape harmonious interpersonal relationships in interpersonal communication.