成人浪漫依恋取向改变的外部和内部影响因素
External and Internal Influences on Adult Romantic Attachment Style Change
摘要: 成人依恋是个体在与他人的相互交往中逐渐形成的稳定情感联系，对浪漫关系的质量和稳定性具有重要预测意义。尽管传统观点认为依恋风格具有稳定性，近年来的研究却表明，其在特定条件下具有一定的可塑性。本文从依恋理论出发，论述了依恋改变的可能性，并从外部因素和内部因素两方面，梳理了影响成人依恋取向改变的主要因素，其中外部因素包括积极关系事件、伴侣支持、生活事件以及社会文化；内部因素包括个人和家庭功能障碍、依恋安全感以及分离焦虑。理解成人浪漫依恋取向改变的因素有助于维护与发展更健康的亲密关系，未来可以进一步考虑内部因素与外部因素的交互作用对依恋风格改变的影响，并从纵向角度探究影响因素对伴侣双方的双向作用及其作用机制。
Abstract: Adult attachment refers to the stable emotional bonds formed by individuals through interactions with others, which play a critical role in predicting the quality and stability of romantic relationships. While traditional perspectives suggest that attachment styles are relatively stable, recent studies have demonstrated that they possess a degree of plasticity under specific conditions. Grounded in attachment theory, this paper explores the possibility of attachment style changes and systematically reviews the major factors influencing these changes from both external and internal perspectives. External factors include positive relational events, partner support, life events, and sociocultural contexts, while internal factors encompass individual and family dysfunction, attachment security, and separation anxiety. Understanding the factors contributing to changes in adult romantic attachment orientations can facilitate the maintenance and development of healthier intimate relationships. Future research should consider the interaction between internal and external factors in shaping attachment changes and investigate the bidirectional effects and underlying mechanisms of these factors on both partners within a longitudinal framework.
文章引用：王安琪 (2025). 成人浪漫依恋取向改变的外部和内部影响因素. 心理学进展, 15(2), 39-46. https://doi.org/10.12677/ap.2025.152059

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