依恋关系对自我认知的塑造及影响

Attachment Relationship’s Shaping and in Fluence on Self-Cognition

摘要: 依恋关系的中断会对个体未来的社会关系模式和身心健康造成影响。个体先天就有寻求稳定关系的动机，缺乏具有安全意义的社会依恋关系会出现各种情绪和行为问题。本文认为，依恋关系通过改变内部认知来影响行为变化。为探明这一问题，本文从自我认知相关理论和实证研究成果对此进行解释。精神分析学派的自我意识理论启示了自我意识发展与他者的互生关系，镜像实验进一步在行为学上证明自我认知的发展与依恋对象息息相关。依恋关系中正常互动对象缺失会通过建立非适应性的自我认知，最终在社会适应过程中对身心健康产生了长久的影响。

Abstract: Disruption of attachment can have an impact on an individual’s future patterns of social relationships and physical and mental health. Individuals are innately motivated to seek stable relationships, and the lack of secure social attachment relationships will lead to various emotional and behavioral problems. This paper argues that attachment relationships affect behavioral changes by changing internal cognition. In order to explore this problem, this paper explains it from the theories and empirical research results related to self- cognition. The psychoanalytic theory of self-awareness enlightens the mutual relationship between the development of self-awareness and others, and the mirror experiment further proves that the development of self-awareness is closely related to attachment objects. The absence of normal interaction objects in attachment relationships will eventually have a long-term impact on physical and mental health in the process of social adaptation by establishing non-adaptive self-awareness.